After reflecting on yesterday and everything he'd said to me and the way he is obsessed with OW...maybe it will work between them. It's not about choosing what he wants anymore, he had already made his choice - OW.
I'm loosing hope, I'm probably fooling myself thinking that he may ever be coming back.
Oh, Mila, I keep reading and needing to post to you, I feel for you so badly. I'm so sorry I didn't stay up on your thread - I've been too busy to focus on anything other than my own thread and now I feel so sorry.
I feel the same way. My H is the type to jump in, but he seems like your H seems to me, like he wants comfort, reassurance and a rock, which is you. Remember that only 1-3% of A's wind up in long term R's and of those that M, 75% will D. Remember that, and you were given good advice, only believe half of what you see. Don't lose sight of that. It's something I have trouble with also, in the moment, when the pain hits... you want to believe their words, but the truth is, they won't even remember their words. They'll remember the feelings attached to it even less. He's all over the place, don't let him drag you in.
My H just got home for family night, I'll finish up later.
