WhatNow, I have the same question about when is being to nice turning into a doormat. And my H to acts less depressed when I am nice and I'm afraid he'll take that as we are fine this way, lets just be friends...
I think one way to combat that is to not always be available and not answer all his calls. They need to know that we are not at their becken call. I could be wrong and maybe someone more experienced will know better. I can't tell you if it's worked for me, because I'm always availabe. However, I'm working on changing that one.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
