Originally Posted By: LSG
She is still having the A with the OM. She is telling me that it is over with us.


It must have been painful to write your reply - that's a lot of things to be feeling bad about. I guess I misunderstood about the "over" part that you had written.

But, you will be moving ahead in one direction or the other.

Does she say she is still having the affair, or are you figuring that out from her late arrivals and other events? Does she seem to have a guilty feeling about it?
Has she ever expressed any remorse?