He feels that he made her leave her H...he must feel responsible.
UGH, just getting caught up, been busy, and I'm so sorry to hear H is being a jerk again.
This is so true. My H's last EA 5 years ago, he kept going back. Once we were well into R and she called to say she was in the hospital and had her gall bladder taken out because of a broken heart... H fell for it. HE FELL for that. He's an educated man - it's incredible what the addiction / brain fog does. He also didn't remember anything about her after the EA was over. I wonder why that happens, the forgetting??? Well, going to finish reading. Hang in there.