Thanks, Abbey. W is struggling with lots of issues - depression, desire for D, pressure from potential OM, work spiraling out of control, loss of friends, etc, etc. My IC referred to it as 'tumbling' and advised me not to get caught up in it. Don't know when the tumble/rollercoaster ride will end - just hope is does someday, if only for her mental health and stability. Despite it all, I do love her very much, which makes it that much harder. Maybe I am just a sap.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012