I totally agree with what Kalni's written.

About about H taking your S -- I know it will be hard. The first time was very painful for me. But I hope that once it becomes a routine it will be genuinely positive for all of you. It was good for my children to be able to spend time with H when he wasn't all stressed out by being around me and in our home.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.