forward, I hear you my friend. and believe it or not I do encourage son to tell dad how he feels, and I also think it would be better coming from son. but like I said Im stepping back now because I just feel like ex is a complete fruitcake and I cannot be bothered, not saying that I wont ever bother, but Im sick of it all and Im sick of being treat like something off the bottom of ex's shoe. to hell with him x