Something strange happened today.

XH sent me an email saying he had asked D14 if she had spoken to me about the holiday he is going on. She hadn't so he was letting me know when he would be away and unable to have her. He offered to swap a week at a time that was convenient to me! I replied thanking him for the information and said I was planning a holiday but didn't yet know when and that I would let him know once it was booked.

I guess it would have been even stranger if he had phoned me but at least it's a start (although of course it's all to his advantage b/c he isn't taking any of my children with him)


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15