"succumb"...
That's where setting your boundaries right from the start. Third party intermediary to hand the child off for visits etc.

That strength is what one must try to gather now, while you've got the time to "work out the bugs" of being assertive for one's self.

Abbey

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.