Annnnddddd...I just got my new checks in the mail. My checks. With my name. And only my name. I haven't had a separate anything in almost ten years. Why does it bug me to see only my name them?

So much for being strong & sure minded. New checks have me teary eyed.

Seriously...someone tell me this is just normal.

formerly known as "shelbel"
Me 40, stbxh 40
DSs 9, 7 & 3
M9, T10
Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.