What to do when their friends suggest leaving?

[gutwrenching]

I'll take a different approach. Don't worry about it, it doesn't matter. In my sitch, all of my W's friends that she has told about our problems...all of them are telling her to fight for M. Guess what, she's not. So it's just not too relevant. A WAW is in a different world, when they hear what they want, then the advice is gospel. When the hear something they don't want to hear, they ignore it.