have you exposed the affair? does he know that you know?
If so, kick his skinny little a$$ to the curb, stop monitoring his calls and msg's and move on with your life, this would show that he's not worth your time and attention anymore and let him know that this is his loss and you start dating other men and when he finds out about it, he will come back begging for a 2nd chance. If he wants to fart around with other women, let him, in fact, endorse his actions, "you should be with her! at least you'll have someone now that I'm gone!"
- then do that zig zag snapping thing with your hand and turn your head and walk away, YOU GO GIRLFRIEND!
I'm being a smart a$$ obviously but I meant every word.
