The counselor that I'm seeing also told me about a site vikki@runawayhusbands.com.....so I go on and it tells you to go on with your life basically, and forget about H/W that left you. Some of the stuff is to work on yourself like this site is but in no way do they tell you to go back to the WAS. I don't think she gets it, that I want to work on myself first and to stand and save my M. No matter how many times I tell her, she just blows it off and tells me to find another man.