Just don't communicate TO her that this is her last chance, even if you're thinking it is. That WON'T go over well.
I joined the dating site out of curiousity. But let me tell you once you start getting attention from nice attractive women, it's hard not to get that all excited.
I will handle the meeting in a mature manner.Not blaming or talking about the past.
I will be straight forward with her, tell her what I expect from a W. I will tell her if she wants to work on this then we need to seek MC. Set the boundary that I will not be apart of an open M and she needs to devote more time into the M if she wants. I will have no regrets, I believe I have tried every possible thing to save M.
I have seen the stats on second Ms. I know there are not likely to work out. I can't even begin to think about something like that right now.
I feel I have addressed my problems I had that caused the M to break apart.
I guess you could say I'm going all in next week.
Anything else I should bring up at the meeting?
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