I'm glad you're taking time to decide what to do and also pouring out stuff on here. My thoughts mirror yours often.
I would wait for her to respond a couple more days, and then try again. If no response then I would email stating why you wish to meet i.e. getting stuff/closure.
But I am only a rookie and know nowt!
Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.
