I guess more of a cooralation would be a better way of putting it.

For example, throughout my marriage I really had to work hard to get my xw discuss how she feels. Even two therapists and a psychiatrist told her she needs to work on communicating her needs and feelings to everyone one in her life.

Also, she was the kind of person that if you know her faults, she would push you away. This includes friends and family.

No one could ever get close to her.

Just trying to understand...

Last edited by Sgfan; 05/04/10 07:04 PM.

Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08