Originally Posted By: dday101798
her only answer is "you need to get over that".


This is so typical. They just want to sweep everything under the rug and forget about it. That's so very hard when our hearts have been literally torn to pieces with everything that happened. H said so many cruel things to me & I'm just supposed to forget that??!! Like it never happened?!

Maybe I should send an email -- what do you think dday? Email or try to talk to him? I guess that way I would be able to put my thoughts down on paper & not forget what I was going to say when the time came to say it. I've lost count, but I've been at this for what about 3 years now since D bomb? Something like that!


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10