Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Originally Posted By: Glimmerman


He regretted dating while separated and asked me to consider this question....

"Do you think it would make a possible reconciliation more complicated, or less complicated?"



It's a great question. The tricky part is, as I see it, is that it also has to be considered in combination with THIS question:

"Do you think it would make a possible reconciliation more likely, or less likely?"

The quandary, ladies and gentlemen, is that -- quite simply -- it WORKS.

Puppy


We need to remain cognizent of what works, even if its not "logical" or "nice". Some of the things which "may work" and we have not explored may go completely against the grain, and some of the things may be manipulative or even MEAN.