It really upsets him if I am moody and he is afraid I am going to "blow".
Probably because when someone, mainly a waman is moody, there isn't a lot of time to prepare a response that is desireable? Especially from a man who's answers are 'programmed' and he has to think, [insert Peter Griffen voice please] "do I say what is on my mind, or take the easy way out and give the answer she wants, oh crap, WHAT WAS THE ANSWER?"
Not taking a jab at you or anything, but from the male prespective, I think this fits the case.
To some extent, my (x)W wants to hear my own answer to question, but as well, has an expected repsonse of me as well.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
