Ok, listen time to calm down. You know things are at a breaking point now with all the stress things are bound to snap. You still feel he hasn't acknowledged what you went through last year. Yes you need to feel loyal to the friends that stood by you. And no your H will not understand.
Maybe I can pass some wisdom Kalni sent my way today. Expectations of H to validate and understand can sometimes let you down. The work is with our own expectations. I'm the worse one to speak about it - so we're in this together. I don't know quite how you do let go of expectations lol but that is all we can control.
Perhaps you can start by listening and validating him? Then you may get some back in return?
Or perhaps it's time for some space - the 24/48 hr rule, and you process your feeling with us. We understand. GEt them out. But not at H. You're only going to be more hurt that he can't understand.
