good point Robx- I think we don't give up on our Ms when there is an A because the WS doesn't fully leave us or walk away in many cases!

but you are right. I am ready to do it I think. The people who read my thread and comment on it probably think I am a hippocrate with all the recent talk of dating then no, then yes, then maybe. Arghh! But you make it sound so easy and worthwhile that I think I will nibble and see what is out there! lol! Hey- it's one of 3 things I haven't done yet!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004