Your H is addicted to the rush of chemicals in his brain called infatuation. They equate this with love.
But true love is the love we have for them. That means we wait and watch while they swirl in their vortex. The unconditional love that allowed them to be who they are. Not the love based on infatuation, cheating, misery and the trashing of their childrens and spouses love.
All our H have a lot to forgive themslves for when the journey is finished.
