I think 18 years olds must be lobotomized. What I haven't figured out is when they get repaired!
Not sure if I can handle two more of them coming up! Oy!
BBJ: I just read the People article. Ick. I feel her pain. Funny, H's celebrity crush is Sandra Bullock. BLECH.
Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
Gotta check out Fergie's legs and also see my brother Woog from the boards, he moved there awhile back...
I'll keep an eye on them for ya... LOL (Sorry, Ferg. That was just wrong.) (NOT)
Ruled:
Originally Posted By: ruledworld
And... you have the most FABULOUS, supportive, good looking support group on the planet... What more could ya want?
You know, you are right... I'll take all of you! Yuk, on your S18. We ARE ONE! LOL
Pearl:
Originally Posted By: pearlharbr
Plus now that she's back at home it means there isn't an empty room for me!
Don't worry, my friend, I'm not letting her get comfortable...
Irish: Hi there! Thank you for your kind words...
Originally Posted By: Irish_love
Mindfull - I was looking to see if you shared what you found out, but haven't seen it. Either way the truth shall set you free to move on and not wonder.
I've purposely not posted the info here... Let's just say it would make you throw up in your mouth (how's that for a visual). Bad, bad... I didn't post it because I already know what I want to do, and (no offense to my posting friends) I'm not interested in a barrage of well-intended advice. I'm just doing it. Kind of like Nike...
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
I completely understand. I guess I was moreso trying to learn from it. I read a lot on here and don't tend to post so much. But reading your thread really got me thinking. I would like to think I know my H very well. I also like to think that I know when he is lying. He has assured me so to speak that the EA has not gone further than kissing but, after reading here, it seems to bring to the forefront of my mind what if that's not the case. I am not niave and I have thought about it before. I also think about it from time to time. But one thing I have tried to bring up a couple of times, is that I don't want to be made a fool of. Like others knowing what it is, and I am in the complete dark. If we are together with those people them just looking at me about what I don't know.
There is a whole FB story and other things that have me wondering. But I seem to know a few things that keep reassuring me in my head it really hasn't gone that far. I don't know.
Again, I respect what you are saying.
Stand strong, permiate strength and move forward at full speed!
Take care.
irish_love __________________________ M 36 H 38 M 14/T 18 4 kids EA Bomb 03/2008 ILYBNILWY 06/2007 & 11/2007 H moving out 5/2008
Oh, come on Mind! You are trekking to Madison, you get to see Ferg (again! No fair!) and you are only going to keep your eyes on him? What a wasted trip...
Yep the Bullock article hit close to home but she is handling it with a lot more strength and grace than I had that soon after the bomb went off...
Stand strong, permeate strength and move forward at full speed!
Irish - I'm glad you're here. There is no one on this planet that could have hid better his infidelity than my H from me. There were some areas of concern, but always easily explained. Only when I hired a PI, did the dirty work, and just dove in, did I find out the truth. It's the best $3500 I ever spent. And, the worst $3500 I ever spent...
I like your sentence above. It's so... me.
BBJ - I would never waste a good trip. It's warm here, too. I love sundresses. Once we coordinate our closets into sizes, we can decide who gets what. I do need some sundress shopping, though. Oh, and Jeans.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
CG - Hey! Thank you! Cocktail sounds perfect right now.
CBIH - Hi... ridiculous, eh? H is NOT a DH... And, he has no idea what I know. He knows I'm pretty done w/his sh*t, though. Not much time now... less than two weeks.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Hey, I need a couple new sundresses too! And some sandals. Love the black Kenneth Cole's I got last year but I wore through the heels. Hoping I can just have them resoled.
BBJ, you should've told me you were looking! I just gave away a beautiful silk Anthropologie sundress, size 4. Or is that too big for you too?
MF, I told BF about D18's accident. He says it sounds like you need a vacation. Denver is beautiful in June...
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
Pearl...if I were too small for a four, you would have heard the screams of joy by now--trust me, they would carry that far! Working to get in a six right now...but give me time!
So, two weeks, eh mind? Not much longer...wasn't sure the time frame....
I would love to be having a margarita right about now...it is HOT here today! (84 anyway)
CBIH - Hi... ridiculous, eh? H is NOT a DH... And, he has no idea what I know. He knows I'm pretty done w/his sh*t, though. Not much time now... less than two weeks.
Got it--thanks!
And btw, I had always heard that "DH" could be used for one of two definitions, depending on the situation..."Dear" husband, or as in your case "Damn" husband. Maybe that's better?
What more could ya want? 
Yuk, on your S18. We ARE ONE! LOL