Wife wants best of both worlds

[Cie la vie]

Email huh? Interesting. It's funny that we both received emails that are out of the ordinary yesterday. I still don't quite get the sudden extra friendly barrage from my kook. I have to suspect as I said before she is on a high with her new OM sitch. I'm certain it has nothing to do with warming up to me.

Forgive me for not knowing but is your X living with this dude? If so for how long?

I get not making mention of her engagement I choose not to acknowledge most of my X's OM related announcements as well unless of course it directly has an affect on the kids.

Given the latest revelation in your sitch I'm thinking something may emerge from this weekend away that my X is taking, with I assume the OM.

One of the curious offers my X made in the emails from yesterday was I can drop in with notice on the weekends she has the kids if I want to. Sounds like cake eating but not sure what to make of it. I'm not interested in subjecting myself to any additional time around her. I didn't respond nor will I. I think they want to get some kind of rise out of us and when they don't it can be frustrating for them.

Sounds like you are handling things well and yes the circumstances are not pleasant but they haven't been for quite awhile. You get to a point where you can anticipate the next BS coming around bend.

I'm doing okay as well. I haven't heard a peep from my attorney on the draft settlement agreement and I just want to get it over with. I've been dragging my feet on getting the house listed and I need to get my head of of my a$$ on this.

That's tough about the kids, I feel for you. My kids are to young or so I think to make troubling statements like that. All you can do is be the best dad possible and hope they are not damaged by the whole mess.

I'm probably going to need to hit the grocery store Thursday in prep. for the weekend with the kids. I'll watch a little NBA as well.

Keep me posted DW.