Not Sure Where I Am

[dday101798]

Hi Redhead,


I'm kind of in the same boat at the moment. Just burnt out, feel like I've been doing all the work, and likewise have not had S with (x)W in over a week, where she is the HD and me not so much, yet last, I was the HD and everything seems to have come to halt.

I also can relate to your feelings about the D. The one year anniversary of mine is around the bend, and it's chomping at my sanity, very very badly. I let (x)W know that, and her only answer is "you need to get over that". Yeah, easier said than done.

Conversely, (x)W thinks that I AM the one who'd rather be with someone else versus her?