I am trying to find that balance between being proactive with my changes and not going overboard. I can see how going from 0 to 60 in a few days would raise some eyebrows.
She still wants to go forward with starting to split up some of our important papers (tax stuff, loan paperwork etc). How do I procceed? I want to work on the M but if I drag my feet and make things hard on her then she will not react well and it may undo the work I am trying to accomplish.
Do I go along (assuming that we still have a few months before she will file) and continue my growth and 180s? We can always put our papers back together if things work out.
