Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Thanks GM. That's what I thought that your W questioned the D from the beginning of your separation. That's what is so concerning to me because my W has given no indication to want to work on our M. Some days I feel like she never will.

I don't think the time is right for C. I'm not sure if the friends I've been talking to even know if she would be willing to go.

We haven't been in contact about the house since two Thursdays ago, almost two weeks. I had a feeling that once the house went on the market she would reduce the amount of communication. I also think since I sent her flowers last friday for her birthday, she is afraid to contact me because she doesn't want to mention the flowers? I could call or email her with an update about the house to break the ice. We have had some people look at it and had another open house this past Sunday. I did say I would update her regularly so maybe she is waiting to hear from me? I could just give her a quick update. What do you think? Or should I wait for her to contact me for an update. I'm surprised she hasn't contacted me for an update. She has to know that we've had some activity on the house in the past two weeks. I asked the realtor if she heard from my W and she said no. I guess my W doesn't care about the house now either? If I do break the ice to give her an update should I call or email her? I would prefer to call so she hears my voice even if she doesn't answer and I leave a message.