As an update, W is back in her storm. There have been lots of little touch and goes to go along with the big one of a month or so ago. For the most part, W is back in the tunnel.
There have been observable baby steps. She is connecting with the kids more now. She even mentioned dropping her Sat. morning class so she could make it to S7's baseball games. We have gone out to lunch and/or dinner together as a family at least once per week the past month. The two of us are planning to go out to a dinner/dance next weekend. I am enjoying those moments for what they are and not reading anything into them.
MC is mostly a waste of time and money at this point. The C has no clue about depression and MLC and despite the fact that she says she isn't trying to make a decision for us, the last session she told us that it appears to her that we have "irreconcilable differences."
Despite that, W still isn't sure of what she wants - or maybe she is too afraid to actually leave. She still thinks that I should be the one to move out of the house. I've made it clear that I won't be leaving. For the time being we have agreed that we will continue to live essentially as roommates.
I continue to work on myself and focus on the kids.
Me: 43 W: 40 S10,S7 M12, T13+
My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1952314&page=1
