Glad you have found a more comfortable place. You sound like you are handling all well.
How are the kids? I ask, again, because that is a subject close to my heart as you well know. I hope and pray they are well. I know you are doing and will continue to do the very best you can for them.
I had to listen to my daughter cry on my lap for 45 min Sat morn. She told me her brother said that they were moving. I went and asked him why he would say that. He said he didn't, that it was his sister who said it. I went back into her room where she was playing with her Barbies and told her what he said. She just sat on her bed with her head down. I sat down next to her, put my arm around her and could tell she was crying. I said that she wasn't in trouble and we didn't have to talk about it if she didn't want to. She threw herself in my arms and sobbed. When she calmed down, she said she heard mom talking to someone on the phone and she said that they were going to be moving. She cried some more and then said she must not have heard her right, she know they wouldn't move anywhere without me. I just held her and rocked her like a little baby and told her it was okay. I couldn't really tell her she was right or wrong, could I?
I brought that up to my W while we were arguing Sun, and she said S9 told her about it and she swears that she NEVER talked to anyone about anything like that. She seems to be able lie with no problem lately, so not sure if I believe her or not. I did tell her I will not deal with this all alone. It is going to be her place to tell the kids. We will do it together and 3 of the 4 are old enough to be told the truth. Mom wants to leave, not Dad.
I know you have already been through that and, God, I don't envy you at all. I hope to avoid it but must prepare myself for the possibility.
Still praying and thinking about you and your family.
