That's just it, she says the marriage is over. I don't know if this is one of the instances where you believe nothing of what they say or not. My feeling is if we had enough money, she would go. Not to get into finances, we pretty much live week to week like a lot of people. We have a house and a nice size shed on 10 acres in the woods out in the country. I have a 45 mile drive to work. She drives about 12.
It wasn't really a R talk Sun. She was just po'd that I didn't stay home. I wasn't there to babysit for her. Yes, it was a memorial for a friends husband, maybe I should have stayed. She was there for nine hours! That should be long enough. Regaurdless, I never once told her she had to pick the kids up, just to call them and calm them down and tell them about what time she would be there. As usual, she twists everything around to fit her frame of mind.
I have not choice but to sit back and wait, reinforce my boundaries and be patient. Don't let her walk all over me and be direspectful.
I hope I'm not out of time, but I feel like it is time to move on. No pressure, just patience.
