There is a huge difference between venting and saying I know is bad DBing but I (insert lame reason why someone didn't DB...EVEN though THEY know its bad to do this)
For me...
"Yes...but..." "I know...but..." "I'm sorry...bu..." I hate that sort of logic.
Anything you said prior to the BUT is...wasted. The But is an excuse.
And excuses are permissions to fail.
Once you get over the inital taste of failing, it gets easier to swallow.
Yes that was a 2x4. : )
I know it was bad DBing...I'll do better next time.
IF overwhelemed is the reason you are going to screw up, then you are going to screw up alot, because you are going to be overwhlemed alot...ALOT.
Get tougher.
Trapt is right about the guilt.
And the honest truth about many guys...we think and deep down believe tears are traps and guilt.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
