well....the same amount that he pays for CS will still go into my account plus more for bills...I guess the thought of Child support for him means still dealing with the past.

Also, he is horrible with money! I will be giving him an allowance every 2 weeks....HIS choice and idea! Which is fine with me. I would have thought he would have learned to manage his money better after 3 years.

I would rather wait to be sure he is home for good, but I got to stop thinking that way. I really dont think he would be going through the hassles of courts to have it stopped if he werent sure he was going to stick around for good. Just that trust thing for me again....

Imlin....how come you never stopped the child support? How long have you and your H been back together? I dont remember. I understand the part about the bill collectors, but is that the only reason?

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
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S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10