Messed up

[jt2007]

It was my birthday today.
I wasnt sure what to expect,

My son called me we had a nice talk about nothing particular...got to speak to all 4 of my sweeties...
I am suppose to go spend the week with them next week, they all are excited about it.

S also said (x)H had asked them yesterday if they had made a card for me..S didnt remind him..(x)H said it on his own.

Then (x)H beeped in..and said Happy birthday..and asked me what I would like to have as a gift..
I kind of had a pause...and he said ok..I mean "one thing I Can give you"

I said nothing I was good..and thanked him for calling.
He asked if I had anything planned with my mom and family..NO
He said that was horrible of them, said I was fine..have a day off of school..and its flooded so cant do anything anyway.

Im just wondering ...he said "anything he CAN give to me" ..means that he is still thinking about me,,is he still open to letting us try to work through?

Im not going to rehash it over and over like usual ..but I did have a nice conversation and am going to be happy with that.

It would have been very upsetting to me I believe if he had not thought about me at all.

I am thankful and it was a good gift, just what I wanted, a nice conversation.