help with a plan

[idontunderstand]

W asked last night after the kids were in bed if I had seen a L yet. I said no, have you? She said no, got up and went to bed.

Still pretty distant but a little friendlier.

I hope I am handling this the right way.

Not arguing with her. Validating when she says she feels something.

Calling her out on her disrespecful behavior.

Detaching. I want to save it. Okay if we don't.

Can't help worrying about the four kids.

It's feeling like it getting close to the end game.

Please help me out here, everyone.

Not feeling so strong at the moment.