Happy Bomb-aversary to Me!

[Augtan]

Mila--mine is the same way, that love is a feeling that he has no control over, and he felt it for his OW too and they were perfect for each other and I broke them up!! Go figure! She was and is a nut job, gave up custody of her then 5 yr old son to be with my still very married husband! Now, three years later, she doesn't have my XH or her son...she didn't want to come 2nd to our kids when she gave up her's!! What a steller mom and person huh?? Sorry you are going through all this...again!

OP- Things were going good with XH and myself since Jan. when the OW left him, we went on a trip together and he was coming out of the tunnel, so contact was good and both ways. Since we left him to go back home after our trip (700 miles away from him), he has gone back into the tunnel. So, 7 days is good since I just started going dark on him again. I did that continully when OW was in the picture, was as dark as I could be with 3 kids to parent with him. Now, I am starting it all over since he is back in MLC big time again. He wants to live like he is 21 and I can't take it, so it is easier not to have any contact with him at all. It is easier for ME, really don't care what it does for him or where it brings him at all right now. At this moment, I am done with someone so cruel, no one knows the future, so I never say never, but I am pretty close to never when it comes to him. Thanks so much and your right, 8 days and counting, isn't long, but given what has happened it is for me and I am proud of it!

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