Wow! They just don't get it at all! Today, my divorce has been final for 1 year! Probably the best anniversay he has ever had! Still no contact! I am getting angrier and angrier today! We have no money and I got totally screwed in the divorce! I am getting bitter that he is just living it up while I can't even pay the water bill. In the divorce he was to make the house payment, well.. once it was final he let the house go to foreclosure, my name was on the house too, so my credit was ruined. Now I can't make the car payment that is in his name and he has the nerve to send me an email saying that it isn't fair for me to ruin his credit by no paying the car payment and that I agreed to do it in the divorce and that it isn't his problem that I can't make the payment! I about levitated out of my chair...!! He can do whatever he wants, but when I am just trying to survive, I am the bad one!! Amazing!

I am sorry your encounter didn't go well! But, awesome about the new lady! So cute of your daughter. My kids tell me all the time they want me to be happy and that their Dad doesn't deserve to be happy! I hope you ask that woman out, you deserve so much better than such a cold woman! GO FOR IT, what do you have to lose?

My ex comes up here in a week!! I had told him he could stay with us, but now that is off the table. Not sure if he is aware of that or not, but since he doesn't speak to me, IM me, or email me..I assume he knows! I just wonder if he has even given my kids any money to get me something for Mother's Day this Sunday? Doubt it!

Well, keep me posted on the new love interest! I have one, but he lives where I use to live, we never get to see each other. So, I am still looking for someone more local at least to date sometimes for something to do!

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Me-40
XH-44
T-21
M-18
Div-19 mo.
D-18,S-15,D-11
Bomb-7/07 EA,PA
Mvd out-9/07-to give me space
mvd back-12/07
mvd out-7/08
back with OW since 2/08
OW broke it off-1/10
in and out of tunnel and our life since!!