Yes it's ME (robx) and I'm looking for advice...

[timehealsall]

I'm not making assumptions. I'm giving my opinion, from MY point of view. I get your point of view. To me dating is different..

And obviously you're not going to fall in love on the first date BUT you can be attracted enough and like this person enough where you can see yourself possibly wanting more out of just dating with that person after a few dates. I do believe that men and women do things differently and have different intentions, especially with dating. Like I remember when I first started to date H and I just wanted to see him, more and more..we both did. I remember him telling me he was falling for me after a few weeks. The feelings of excitement to see him. Don't you think that developing feelings like this for someone else is something that would be good?

Also, I believe that you have to be of a certain state of mind to be able to go out and date without attaching. Being vulnerable and emotional and start dating is the worse thing you can do to help your sitch IMO.