Db not working, MLC spouse pushing D

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Wow, Jack3B, is that one of your famous 2x4's? I guess you are right, I shouldn't do what I know is bad, but I was just venting here.

thanks Trapt, This is so frustrating, as there is this strange creature masquarading as my husband, who is occasionally nice to me, yet at the same time wants to be with the OW and tells me we are finished. I just feel like I don't know how to act anymore or where to turn. I guess me throwing guilt at him is actually a 180 for me, since for the past 2 years I have tried to be understanding of all of his MLC cr*p and trying to be a good DB-er.