Conway quoted psychologist Clifford Adams in what motivates men and woman in choosing a mate. In order from top to bottom.
MALE Companionship Sex Love-affection-sentiment Home & Family A Help-Mate Security
FEMALE Love-affection-sentiment Security Companionship Home & Family Community acceptance Sex
"Dr Adams concludes that this discrepancy cannot but lead to widespread dissatisfaction in marriage."
"Most couples have never considered if they are compatible from a need orientation. They conclude because they enjoy touching each, staring into each others eyes, bowling and making love they will have no problems with marriage."
So looking in to the mirror maybe this can help me and other to see what we need to really work on in our lives.
