Read pearlharbr's last post. Then read it again. And again till it really sinks in.
I think that's one of the biggest tripping points in putting a R back together. When the other person responds positively and thinks get back to they were in the beginning of a M then the trap of complacency can set in.
Keep your eye on the ball and don't let the issues creep into the shadows.
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