Originally Posted By: foreverhesaid
Well, I just don't know what to think. Here we are a few days later, H is still here and things seem 'back to normal' which is that we are coexisting fairly peacefully.


Well, don't think too much about it then. I know it's easier said than done but if things are peaceful, go with it and live in the moment.



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I got all teary, and when he asked me why said that it just hurt so much when he was nice to me, since I felt like he didn't really care. (I know, bad DB-ing, but at that point I just got overwhelmed). He got all grumpy and when I went up to bed he bedded down on the sofa.


See what happened? You threw some guilt at him. They will become grumpy, angry, and defensive when you do this.


Don't stand still.