Well, I just don't know what to think. Here we are a few days later, H is still here and things seem 'back to normal' which is that we are coexisting fairly peacefully.
Well, don't think too much about it then. I know it's easier said than done but if things are peaceful, go with it and live in the moment.
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I got all teary, and when he asked me why said that it just hurt so much when he was nice to me, since I felt like he didn't really care. (I know, bad DB-ing, but at that point I just got overwhelmed). He got all grumpy and when I went up to bed he bedded down on the sofa.
See what happened? You threw some guilt at him. They will become grumpy, angry, and defensive when you do this.