I completely understand. I guess I was moreso trying to learn from it. I read a lot on here and don't tend to post so much. But reading your thread really got me thinking. I would like to think I know my H very well. I also like to think that I know when he is lying. He has assured me so to speak that the EA has not gone further than kissing but, after reading here, it seems to bring to the forefront of my mind what if that's not the case. I am not niave and I have thought about it before. I also think about it from time to time. But one thing I have tried to bring up a couple of times, is that I don't want to be made a fool of. Like others knowing what it is, and I am in the complete dark. If we are together with those people them just looking at me about what I don't know.
There is a whole FB story and other things that have me wondering. But I seem to know a few things that keep reassuring me in my head it really hasn't gone that far. I don't know.
Again, I respect what you are saying.
Stand strong, permiate strength and move forward at full speed!
Take care.
irish_love __________________________ M 36 H 38 M 14/T 18 4 kids EA Bomb 03/2008 ILYBNILWY 06/2007 & 11/2007 H moving out 5/2008