OK, you have to talk to him. To hold this in will do no good. That or go into spy mode if your gut is telling you something.

I hate that feeling like he still has the upper hand, I know what you mean and I hate it. It's like you somehow want to do a power grab, make sense?

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)