It went well -- very well. I liked the lawyer (a woman) a lot. Gave me some good advice. I see another one this week.
H is moving out. He thinks he found a place and if his application goes through, he could be gone this weekend. Happy Mother's Day to me! I really unleashed some pent up anger at him last weekend when he got home from his trip. He said he had been looking but after me spitting nails at him all night, he said he'd speed up the process. He admitted that making me live this way was not right. We've agreed to a trial separation.
I'd like to make it legal but he doesn't want to get lawyers involved. That's great for him. He's just going to continue living like he has been but what about me? Do I really want to be frozen another 2-3 years? Don't think so.
We spent last night talking about what he needed to take with him. What he could take or couldn't take. Seemed unreal...