I don't think I can continue to do this. She is cordial and will speak to me when the kids are awake, but as soon as they go bed she acts like a kid and ignores me. This is pointless, and we'll never fix anything like this. She even closes and locks the bedroom door for some reason.

I'm thinking of telling her she won. It's obvious she has no desire to work on us at this time. She either needs to leave or do whatever she needs to d, because I don't deserve to be treated like this or to live like this.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept