W still wants separation, need to DB more

[MrBond]

OIN,

IMHO, it sounds like you should just continue to be kind to her, but not too giving. When she acts rude to you, let it go or say something like "I don't appreciate it when you talk like that to me. It's rude and uncalled for." Then just walk away.

Right now you may be a little too giving.

I know you're beating yourself up over what you did in the past, but it is what it is. Start letting her come to you a little. The fact that she put up your pictures and calls you over to talk are good steps.

Does she still take your phone to check on it? If you're seeing that cut down, then it sounds like it's improving.