Gucci, I understand the point you are trying to make. I followed your advice, it failed me. My W did not respect me more, she expressed more resentment and confirmed her decision to leave.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10