I agree that you made the decision that was best for you. An A is not part of my sitch, so I don't want to pretend that I can relate to your sitch.
I posted the quote from my friend because A's were part of their sitch. They tried to reconcile, but couldn't get it done. I don't know details, but I respect his question.
Hi G. Please don't think I was taking you to task, that wasn't my intention. I post what I'm doing, as it is relevant to me. It may be relevant to someone else, or not. The reader can figure that part out for themself.
Prolly should start my posts w/a disclaimer ...
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10