I think you handled that very well! You H is very bold! My H tried to hide everything. I had to do some major work to find out about ow & when I found out he still wouldn't talk about it. He also would sneak in & take things, they were his to take but he didn't want me to know about it. My L wouldn't let me change the locks until after mediation & we settled things.
I'm fine here, thanks for asking. My house is on a hill but the devastation here is horrible! The Grand Ole Opry house has taken on water, my friend that works their said it is very bad! So many homes are under water. Never seen anything like it. I feel so blessed but so sad for these other people.
You hang in there, I'm sure it is very hard for you, I didn't have to see ow (she was in another state) & we didn't have kids but I think that would be very hard!!