"His results mean I have to do all the above to make him feel loved? High maintenance guy!!"

No.. you focus on the one that won.

Words. I can kinda see that.

The test is "subjective" to a point. You might float around some. Depending on your "situation". I think the conversations you two have had points to he might be a words guy. He has clearly been wanting to hear from you that things are OK.

You both are in a confusing time. But.. the test just gives you a starting point to figure out where to start. Use simple things to test the theory. Take your #1 and his #1. Suggest that you both focus on that. If you both were Words.. then suggest you both play that up some.

Be creative with how you say it.


Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.